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Look at the title. I think this is the boldest entry that I ever wrote. Its just like I’m writing a manual for men who want to comprehend women zealously. Before I go further, I would like to emphasize that this is just my opinion because I am a woman and of course I know what women think and feel. Assume this as one of your references okay? Let me guide you.
Ladies are the most confusing creature in the world. Why? Because they are complicated both physically and mentally.
Looking at the biological aspects, they do have intricate body parts. For example, the uterus which leads to the menses every month when they hit puberty and I must say it is torturing. The PMS, the period cramps, the moods became ON and OFF like every time, the aches on several body parts and all that are really giving women hard times so please, can you understand us?
When the hormones are all mixing up creating a chaos inside the body, this is why women will show all sorts of feelings when you do something wrong even it is the smallest matter. They can be crazy psychotic monster if you don’t handled them with extra care. Here some tips from me.
What you have to do is,
- Be patient with her caprices although she said or do stupid things.
- Brings any snacks – she feels hungry like all the time and eat a lot especially something sweet.
- Always said yes and agreed with everything she said.
- Never ever be mad of her because she will be super sensitive unless you can handle her cries 24/7 😛
- Said things that will comfort her and make her calm.
- Make sure she get enough rest and for the best, sleep.
- Give gentle massages on her back and waist.
- Ignore her? Don’t you dare. During their period, she needs you at most and don’t leave her alone.
- Never offend her.
- Be romantic as much as possible – the girls are very emotional during her period.
- Always keep in mind that if she said something stupid or illogical, don’t trust her. Its not her but it is the hormones talking!
These are some information that I may pointed out when your girl are having their monthlies. You men MUST understand this because this is very important if you want to have a delightful relationship. They are so fragile but don’t worry. She will be back to normal after the menses ended. You just have to be extremely patient only for a few days. It doesn’t that hard right? 🙂
Despite the suffocating time of the month, women also came up with a ravishing package. The beautiful bodies, the pretty smile and the most important is their heart. The ladies assembles so much love inside them and wait for the right time to burst. They have these awesome attitude build up inside of them. Caring, softhearted and loving and because of that you may want to look for the details when something wrong happened. You need to collect enough information about woman and studying it. Yeah, its sounds like a lot of work but do you have any choice if you want a woman in your life?
1) Double Meaning
In majority counts, most women are secretive. I admit that some of them are very direct and straightforward but they still have secrets even the tiniest one. What is she saying in front of you are 90% not coming from her heart. This is so true. Women always assuming the men to understand them on his own. Its like you’re playing riddles without any hints or clues. If you do it wrong, you’re screwed. Women are always like that and nothing will never ever change that. That makes a woman, a woman.
I’m giving you an example of situation here.
A man and his wife are having dinner together at a restaurant. The wife ordered a bowl of mushroom soup with a few slices of garlic bread because she doesn’t have the appetite to eat something heavy while her husband eat one full plate of Carbonara spaghetti with a few meatballs. While the husband enjoying his appetizing meal, the wife just observing him.
Wife : Is the spaghetti really that yummy? I’m sure its pretty tasty. Its quite a long time since we’re having the Western’s for dinner right? 🙂
Now I’m questioning you. What does she even mean? For a man who lack of experiences with woman is totally never gets it and definitely will answer like this.
Husband : Yeah. Its very good. I never thought this place serves a very delicious spaghetti ! We should come again later.
It sounds right but nope. You’re doing it wrong. Why? Two words : DOUBLE MEANING. Hiding feelings are really a woman’s games. They don’t expressing what they feel directly on your face but they want you to make the move to understand them. More like telepathically maybe.
What the wife really meant is
That spaghetti looks very delicious. I want to taste it ! I’m hoping he would give me some. What don’t I asked him a few questions?
Andddd there she goes. Asking the questions and hoping that her husband would give her a chance to taste it. See? Analyzing the questions came out from her mouth and her thoughts are extremely different. That’s woman. So what you have to do when she asked you the questions is
Husband : Its really good. Here. Have some. If you want we can order another one for you at home. 🙂
Yeahhh. That should be it. Are you one of these kinda guy? If its true, you hit the woman jackpot!
2) Own language
I’m just gonna upload a picture and boys, you have to prepare your tools and lets do some revision !
Woman really loves attention and really hates to be ignored or otherwise she’ll be the one who ignoring you if you turn a blind eye to her. If she started to not paying attention to you, BEWARE. There must be some problems that she want to settle with you. For example, if you’re pay no heed to her texts or calls, she can get really angry either in her words or the most serious is the silence.
4) Right-Now People
Besides hiding on what she really feels, the truth is she want to settle all the problems with you right away. Woman doesn’t like to delay any problems until you figure it out the solutions. Please take note. YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE MOVE FIRST. I know you man has quite high level of self-esteem but you may want to take things slow. You know, with gentle. Woman will respect you more if you lower your ego a little bit. It would not crack your nomination in her Top 5 list as The Most Like Spouse. I am pretty sure about that. Why? Because I’m a woman. So, what are you waiting for? Find the settlements in your problems with her!
5) Give her time
When your girl getting mad because of you, just give her some space and time for her to cool off. Kinda of a silence treatment. She’ll be okay after that. How long you have to wait? It depends on her when she want to forgive you BUT I have to remind you something. During that period, you should not leave the situation in total silence but you must show your effort to coax her. Send her a few apologizing messages in a beautiful and sincere way. Call her and if she doesn’t answer, don’t stop persuades her in other way. Your coaxing level will determine how much you care about her and she’ll be seeing that although she is sad.
6) Little things
Girls never stop appreciating all things even it is the smallest matter. Your Good Morning text everyday is never gets old. For her, it is the best start for her and it might brighten her for the whole day! See? Simple is the best. There are many other things that you can do to attract a woman’s heart. Call her everyday just to say I Love You to her. Just a few seconds but its totally worth it. It may decreases the percentages of your conflicts, problems or any misunderstanding. Also, you can do surprises. Woman loves everything that can make her feel overwhelmed. Who says it is hard to win a woman’s heart?
Girls do have some quirky characters that appear to be very confusing to the men. I agree that it is very difficult to understand them. What they say are exactly in the opposite. You must accept the fact that woman only do things like this if she likes you. Its true. You see that if a woman doesn’t like you, she’ll just ignored you or maybe saying harsh words if she is a bad-tempered person. For some girls, they just stay in silence and don’t shows any responds towards you.
Women ask and say all these things because they:
- Want to be loved and appreciated
- Want you to care enough to know what they want without them having to tell you.
- Offer subtle criticism that you gotta figure out on your own.
Besides of their peculiar personality, women do have lots of wonderful demeanor. They full with so much love and you can see that in a mother.
I hope this guide can help men around the world know what a woman really means by what she says. I guess these are the only things that I have in mind. Feel free to give your opinion, ideas or any other information. Thank you for reading 🙂